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Feeling and Witnessing  

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Witnessing:

Witnessing is an essential part of the Creation process.     For an overview of witnessing see the section title:   Witnessing Your Creation. '   

Editor's Note:  The following section is written in the personal, present tense about myself.   When you read this, read it from the space where the words are your words about yourself.

Thoughts, Emotions, and Feelings

When my intention is to  change an internal belief, effective and functional  witnessing can be done by simply observing-the-change in one's mind.  The results appears to be immediate and  quite effective.   But when the focus is on making a change in the external world, such as manifesting a new car and/or physical  healing of my body, there appears to be more required.   Emotions,  feelings, and body imagery  appear to play a much bigger role than was previously thought.  

Greg Braden in his book, "The Isaiah Effect"  gives us an in-depth look at the importance of feelings in successful manifesting.   (If you haven't yet read it, please do so.   If you do, what is written below will be much easier to understand and use.)  Based on his work, on several other sources, on the Theta Healing techniques, and on this author's own connection to Creator/God,  here's another perspective on witnessing a creation:   

The Creation Process:

For years we've heard this advice,  "Imagine your creation as if it is already complete and manifested."     In his book and video, The Power of Intention, Wayne Dyer, states this as:   "Contemplate yourself as surrounded by the conditions which you want to produce."   In his book, The Isaiah Effect, page 148, Greg Braden states it this way:   "To change the condition of our outer world, we are invited to actually become the conditions of our experience from within."   

Another way to approach this is to ( in your imagination)  see, feel, hear, smell, taste, and/or experience  yourself as a unit (a ship) of consciousness constantly in motion  in a multi-dimensional ocean of consciousness.   Your mental focus tells your ship which way to go.   Your emotion (your desire, you love, your sense of longing to experience)  is the power which moves you (your ship of consciousness) around in the multi-dimensional ocean of consciousness.   Your feelings, (your imagined experiences as if your goal were already physically  manifested)  

Self-awareness teachers commonly tell us  that, in the non-physical world, at the level of Creator, your command is already created, it's already real.   That's nice, but my physical experience still tells me that it's not real.   The teachers also say that in order to bring my command into physical reality I must pretend that it's already manifested.   The most common reaction to this instruction  is,  "How do we get beyond what appears to be lying to myself?"   The logical mind says, "You're crazy," and very frequently,  it simply refuses to cooperate.  

Step One:  My first task is to get my mind to be on the success side of the process.   I  give my mind a reason for what I am doing.   I also give it a job.   I give it a way to stop fighting my process.   I give it a way to get out of the way.   

Using the Theta Healing / Theta Transformation process, I  also address several additional factors:   It's possible.   It's possible for me.    I know how to. . .    I know what it feel like to . . .     I know how to experience what it feel like.   I'm willing to have ____ in my life.   I know how to have ____ in my life.   I willing to let go of the old ways that no longer serve my new image of myself.  See the page titled:   Format for Downloading New Beliefs`

 I tell my Personality-Self`  something like this:   Yes, you are right.  It is crazy, but in that "other-world" and for those who live there, its not crazy.   It's how they play.   So lets you and me go into their world figure out what they're doing.   Let's go there and pretend that it's real and we'll see what happens.   Are you OK with doing this?   You are.  Good!

It's just a game, anyway, so it really doesn't matter.   We don't need to care, even in the slightest, whether it's real on not, and we don't need to care about how this experience turns out.   We'll just step in and play.   Are you OK with that, too?    You are.  Good!

Step Two:  The Thought --  The point of focus:    The Universal law say:  "Thought attracts that which is like itself."   Thoughts combined with emotions and feeling are the tools of physical creation.  The external physical things you are seeking are simply ways to experience internal feelings of joy, pleasure, and ecstasy.   

Think of success as external and out there.  It's having your new car.  Think of joy and pleasure as the internal feelings you have by owning, driving, and riding in your new car.

Creation is in the thought (I have a new car) combined with the internal feelings of joy, pleasure, and ecstasy (It feels so good to feel this good).   Creation is also  in the thought combined with the internal feelings of resentment, pain, anger, etc.  

Thoughts in, of, an by themselves, do not appear to hold much power.  They are, however, an important piece of process because thoughts are like the navigation system in a ship, they tell the creative process where to go -- what to focus on -- what to create.    

Imagination is the key here because, in order to be successful,  my job is to be inside of  my new creation  -- to see, hear, feel, smell, and taste myself inside of and experiencing my new creation  -- to experience myself in my body inside the experience as if my creation was already a physical reality.

Step Three:   The Emotion:   --  Emotions are commonly described by words such as:  "love, like, crave, passion, longing for,  desire, etc."   These are emotions on the positive side that pull me in.   These are emotions that move me toward what I'm thinking about.   They are the "feel good" emotions.   

On the negative side, emotions are  expressed as fear, anger, hate, and the like.   These are the "push away" emotions, commonly labeled as  the "feel bad" emotions.   Even though we want to push certain thoughts away, these  emotions move me toward what I'd prefer to avoid.  

 Regardless of whether they are "feel-good" emotions or "feel-bad" emotions -- emotions  are the power that drive/move the thoughts I focus on.   They are like the engine that drives the ship.   

For example, focusing my attention on having a new car moves my ship of consciousness toward my new car.  I and my new car vibrate in harmony.   We are each pulled toward the other.  If I focus on not having my new car, this moves my ship of consciousness away from my new car.  I and my new car vibrate differently (in conflict - in disharmony).   We are each pushed away from the other. 

Step four:   The Feeling  --  The next factor to consider is what is labeled "feelings."   These are the internal experiences of our thoughts and emotions.   These are the internal  experiences we have when our intentions are fully manifested outside of us in the physical world.   Feeling are described by words such as:  "peace of mind, tranquility, comfort, joy, ecstasy."   (or on the feel-bad side -- fear, anger, tension anxiety, etc.)   

Here's an example of the difference between an emotion and a feeling:  Remember the love you had for your first romantic partner.   Now remember how you felt in your body when you were passionately involved with him/her.   Think of emotions as non physical and feelings as in-the body physical.  Think of emotions as the desire and feelings as here-and-now experiences.   Imagine your intend  manifestation as a here and now experience.  

Step five:   Describing My Experience:    Now that my intention is manifested, here are the "word descriptions" and the pictures, the sounds, the smells, the tastes,  and the body sensation of that manifestation.   While describing the manifestation, my job is to feel the feeling associated with the manifestation of my vision.    I imagine my intend  manifestation as a here and now experience.  

Step Six:   Faith -- Belief:      This isn't really a step.   It's the context in which everything about your creation lives.   It may begin with a very common question,  "How can my internal thoughts, emotions, and feelings affect the outside world around me?   This takes us to  the Laws of the Universe and how they work.   I am assuming you already understand this.

If not, you are advised to take some time and spend some effort learning them.   Here's a good place to start.   See the web pages which describes  The Universal Law of Thought.   A summary can be found at:   http://www.lifecoach4vip.com/m011-vibrating-universe.htmland a more detailed analysis is available at: http://www.lifecoach4vip.com/m030-universal-laws.html. '  

Faith is about trusting that which cannot yet be physically verified.  **22    It's about trusting Creator/God.   It's trusting that the rules/laws of the Universe are real and that they actually work.   It's trusting that the rules/laws of the Universe will work for me and that I know how to and actually am using the rules correctly.  

It's trusting that I deserve the manifestation.   It's trusting that it is possible for me to be, do, have, and experience my new creation.    It's trusting that I know what experiencing my new creation feels like -- that I know how to live and be in my new creation -- that I can let go of the old life I lived prior to the new creation.   

Step Seven:   A Spiritual/Religious Perspective:     If you choose to think of this in Biblical terms, its the breath, or spirit that enters a form that gives it life.   "In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God."     "God made man from the dust of the Earth. and into his nostril, he breathed the breath of life, and man became a living being."   One can think of a pure thought as simply the matter out of which Creator creates.   Emotions, spirit, love, desire, give the thought movement and manifestation power.   Your feelings give the thought its form and its expression in your personal, physical world.   

The Process -- By Example:

Let's take this through a rather simple personal example -- an example in which if you haven't already manifested it, it is rather easy for most of us to do so.   In this example the intention is have and experience a new high definition television.   

Where Am I?    First I recognize that I am not presently experiencing a high definition TV in my home.   This thought is about the absence of the HDTV.   Its about what I don't choose.   It's about what I choose to move away from.   

Beyond a simple awareness of that it's my present experience, my job is to let go of any emotions or feelings about this experience  -- to view it with the same detached objectivity with which I view a telephone pole along the street.   I know it's there, and I choose to walk around it, but beyond that, it holds no space in my conscious mind.  

I ask, "Do I have an emotional charge on the absence of an HDTV.   Do I resent having what I presently have.   Do I resent others for having what I don't have.   If so, job one is to release all negative emotions about what presently is  and to move into the space of gratitude for my present experiences.   To be at peace with what I am presently experiencing.    Why release all negative emotions?  Because holding them tells the universe to give me more to feel bad about.   

What Do I Choose to Experience?    The next step is to create clear, accurate thoughts, visions, and descriptions of what I choose to create.   Do some research.  Answer some specific questions.  I choose this or that style, size, model, manufactured by, etc.   It contains a ____ .  It does this and that and has ____ .  I choose to have a second remote controls, both of which do this and that. etc.  It's available at  ______  and costs ____.   (Where and how else might it be available?)  

Next, I transform my vision into a written statement.   Symbolically speaking this is like creating  and filling out an order form when ordering a product from a manufacturer or it's distributor.  My writing brings in both the visual and the kinesthetic senses.   Once written, I read  it out loud.   this brings in a third sense, hearing.  (If I were manifesting something that I smelled or ate, I'd bring in taste and smell.)  

If I have a partner in this creation, we read the order form out loud to each other.  We do so as one of our first actions every morning and as one of our  last actions  every evening.   When I go to bed, we I command creator to bring me a dream in which I am experiencing my self watching a very exciting program on my very own HDTV.  

Bring In The Emotion:   --  Now that I know what I want, my next job is to generate the positive emotions associated with my owning and experiencing an HDTV.   My job is to translate my vision  into a body feeling -- into a body experience.   I notice my feelings and my emotions blending together and supporting each other in a loving, joyful spiral.  

I feel the strong pull within me drawing me toward the showrooms where I see dozens of HDTV's all playing at once.   I examine the various models.   I pick one up to see how heavy it is.   In my imagination, I  feel myself vibrating in harmony with my new HDTV.   How does one vibrate in harmony with a TV set?   Not by imagining myself to be a TV set, but by vibrating in harmony with the watcher of the HDTV.  

I ask the store clerks for pictures of HDTV's and bring them home and place them in conspicuous place where I see them frequently.   I go back to another store and do the same thing again.   

I command creator to install in me His perspective, definition and understanding of every aspect of my new HDTV.    See the page titled:   Format for Downloading New Beliefs`

I remember to focus on having my own HDTV and avoid thinking about "not having an HDTV."   I command of Creator that I  have a clear distinction between my thoughts and feeling of "having" and "not having."   I command creator to guide me in every moment of my life to focus on the "having."  

In my imagination, again and again, I  feel myself vibrating in harmony with my new HDTV.    I also remember to vibrate in harmony with the universal law of rhythm.  I focus on the HDTV and then turn my vision over to Creator/God and let it drift out of my mind.    Later, I again focus on the HDTV and then again, I  turn my vision over to Creator/God and let it drift out of my mind.    I repeat this in cycles.   

I regularly stop and appreciate what I already have.  I express my gratitude to Creator.   

I ask how can I bring Comfort and joy to myself and to others with my new HDTV.   I remember this old truth:  "When you're passionately making out, with every kiss you give, you get one back."    I apply that principle to my new HDTV.   If I were a sports fan, I'd imagine inviting my friends over and have game-watching party.   Instead, I imagine having a video watching party, or a study group and focus on a video that enhances our field of mutual interest.    My job is to live in the experience of having my new HDTV.  

I like my new HDTV.   I love watching  my new HDTV.   I allow my desire to pull me toward my new HDTV.    I allow my desire to pull the TV toward me.    I focus on  the "feel good" words and the "Feel good" feelings associated with my new HDTV.   I let my emotions be the  engine that drives my ship.   I imagine my  emotions  moving me through a multi-dimensional worlds in which I am experiencing seeing  incredibly beautiful pictures on my new HDTV.   

I become surrounded and engulfed in my vision.   In my mind, I live the vision, see the vision, feel the feelings associated with my vision.  I hear the sounds, smell the smells, taste the tastes of my vision.   I am my vision.   I love my new experience.   I then let it go and return to my normal mental state and do so with full belief, and understanding that my vision is manifested.  

What is it about my intended manifestation that I find offensive?  

 

Maslow's  pyramid

Five components of wealth  James Ray   

Financial Wealth   

Relational Wealth  

Intellectual Wealth   

Physical Wealth    

Spiritual Wealth

 

Think from the end result   

Be in harmony with the conditions  which you want to produce." 

Vibrate with the conditions  which you want to produce." 

 

Feedback from the people in my life.  

Receive and accept compliments      and then praise self   

A sense of entitlement.   you are a child of the universe, just like the trees and the stars   opposite is I'm not worthy.  

30 Dec email    

Let go of  attachments.   You only have it if you give it away.   

Find this movie:    Movie  "Next" ---   Nicholas Cage  & Jessica Beal  About someone who can see two minutes into the future.     

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 is a three part process involving thoughts, emotions and feelings     

 

 

We commonly make changes by changing the context in which we live.   A divorce is a good example of this.  

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Dealing with Feelings              ...

Dealing with Feelings  
Knowing How to. . .

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Dealing with Feelings

There may be some feeling you (or your client) have never felt.   For example, you (or your client) may have never experienced what it feels like to be safe, or to be  accepted, or to be unconditionally loved.     

In order to be able to relate to something you  (or your client) have never  experience in this life, download the feeling from Creator using one or more of the commands below.     (11a is the most powerful.)  

Set the context for your felling downloads with this command

+)   Creator it is commanded that I know how to feel and to experience  the energy of Creator as it flows through every cell of my body now. 
 Creator it is commanded that I know how to feel and to experience  the energy of Creator's creations as they flow through every cell of my body,  now. 
It is done.  It is done.   It is done now.  Thank you.   
It is witnessed now, and so it is.

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"What it Feels like"   means:    

"The energy from Creator of the Seventh Level flows through every cell of my body and on all four levels:

1- History Level               (where you hold the lessons learned)
2- Subconscious mind
    (Core beliefs learned in this lifetime)  
3-Genetic Level
               (Genes - The biological make of my body) 
4- Soul Level
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11c)   Creator it is commanded that I have I have Creator's  P. U. D.  (perspective, understanding, and definition)  of what it feels like to be/ do/ have/ live in/ express/ experience   _____   now. 
It is done.  It is done.   It is done now
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It is witnessed now, and so it is. 

10)   Creator it is commanded that I know what it feels like to be safe and secure,  at the same time, to be/ do/ have/ live in/ express/ experience  _____   now. 
It is done.  It is done.   It is done now
.  Thank you.   
It is witnessed, and so it is.

11a)   Creator it is commanded that I have an in-depth sensory perception, understanding and experience of    being ______,    doing ______,   having  ______  living in ______ ,   expressing _____ ,  
experiencing ______  now. 
It is done.  It is done.   It is done now.  Thank you.   
It is witnessed now, and so it is.

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Knowing How to. . .

Sometimes we don't know how to be or do something.  If that is true to you,  (or your client)  apply the same process  used for dealing with feelings.   It applies equally well to knowing how to be or do something.   Download the knowledge of "how to"   from Creator using one or more of the following commands.   (11a is the most powerful.)

11c)   Creator it is commanded that I have I have Creator's  P. U. D.  (perspective, understanding, and definition)  of how to be/ do/ have/ live in/ express/ experience   _____   now. 
It is done.  It is done.   It is done now  Thank you.   
It is witnessed now, and so it is. 

10)   Creator it is commanded that I know how to to be safe and secure, at the same time, to be/ do/ have/ live in/ express/ experience  _____   now. 
It is done.  It is done.   It is done now  Thank you.   
It is witnessed, and so it is.

11a)   Creator it is commanded that I have an in-depth sensory perception, understanding and experience of    how to   be ______,    do ______,   have  ______  live in ______ ,   express _____ ,  experience ______  now. 
It is done.  It is done.   It is done now  Thank you.   
It is witnessed now, and so it is.

. What Joy Feels Like        ...

to have joy   -- what joy feels like  

to be happy   -- what happiness feels like  

to have peace of mind    -- what peace of mind  feels like  

to be contented      -- what being contented  feels like 

to be relaxed     -- what being relaxed  feels like 

to be comfortable    -- what being comfortable  feels like 

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to love     ---  what love feels like

to love completely

to receive love

to be completely loved 

to have a true love in my life

to be accepted 

to be worthy of God's love 

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to feel safe       ---  what being safe feels like

to be supported  --  assisted  --  helped -- comforted

to be expectant  --  excited  

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to forgive others      ---  what forgiveness feels like   

to be forgiven by others

to forgive myself 

to be forgiven by myself  

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to be healthy  

to receive and accept a healing  

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to trust another      ---  what trust feels like 

to be trusted by another 

to trust myself     

to trust my intuition  

to know my place in creation from Creator's perspective

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to live in a physical body on planet Earth  

to be connected to the Earth 

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Check the page:  TH-0033-Word-Lists. '   You'll probably find addition words that will be helpful for you.

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Notes and Reference

    Personality-Self:    My goal is to end the war against ego.     In this lifetime, in this place, ego is the term for who I am.   Ego  just is.   I allow it to be.  I am grateful for who I am.  I shift from a negative self judgment to an acceptance and appreciation.   To remove the emotional charge from the reference to self, I shift the language  from ego to personality.    

Why replace the word "ego" with  "personality-self."   Because the word "ego" has  many negative feeling and beliefs attached to it.  To avoid this pitfall,  a new name was created --  a name that has no preconceived beliefs attached to it -- "personality-self."   Personality-self is defined as the unique individuation of Creator that each of us refer to when we tap on our chest and say, "me."  

Another reason to change from "ego" to  "personality-self?" is because a simple change of language can make a significant difference in the minds of those hearing or reading the words.   It's like the difference between the tile "inheritance tax" and "death tax."  That small change of wording enabled special interest group (the super wealthy) to completely change a law that had resisted change for decades.

As another example, notice the distinct change of perspective that comes from referring to  "abortion"  as  "forced motherhood."  This  change of wording moves the focus of attention from a discussion about the zygote/embryo/fetus to a discussion about the woman and her God-grated right to freedom and self-determination.'     Those who claim to be the pro-choice leaders would be wise to stop referring to intentionally terminating a pregnancy as "abortion" and started  to using the words like "inpreterm,"  (In-Pre-Term)  which has no negative emotions attached to it and/or the words  "forced motherhood."  The label "forced motherhood" moves the pro-choice movement into its very first offensive position, and for the first time puts the forced motherhood people on the defensive.   When one examines the evidence in the context, religious freedom,  the forced motherhood position falls flat.  Their position is simply not defendable.  

With proper publicity, forced motherhood would soon seen as what it is, a religious freedom issue.   The no-choice supporters claim to be strong advocates or religious freedom.   The strategy is bring out the evidence as to why intentionally terminating a pregnancy is a religious freedom issue and then ask the anti-choice people why they are you not supporting religious freedom.

Among other things, a discussion of "forced motherhood."  demands  an answer to this  question:  Are humans their physical bodies or are they spirit being who enter physical bodies? '     This issue is important because the Forced motherhood advocates must claim that a human being is his her physical body.   If a human being is not his/her physical body, the no-choice advocates have no basis for their creation at conception '  proclamation.   The accuracy of this claim is one of the core requirements in their war to  outlawing intentional pregnancy termination (inpreterm).   The evidence says that humans cannot possibly be their physical bodies for several reasons, chief among them is  the scientifically proven fact that physical matter is not physical, it's energy.  This is only the first of several no-choice claims that are un-defendable.   

The second completely un-defendable "pro-life" proclamation is their ancient religious fairytale which proclaims that God's steps in at every human conception and performs an  instantaneous, supernatural, transcendental conception act.    According to the No-choice advocates, God converts every fertilized egg into a brand new, never-before-existing human being who lives one and only one life on Earth and then, after death, goes to heaven above the clouds or to hell beneath your feet, or to to God's unknown and un-described cosmic trash bin ' forever.   

And then there's the little problem of denying their own bible.  Genesis 2:7  and Escalates 11:5 throw two big monkey wrenches into the forced-choice machinery, so the forced-motherhood promoters simply ignore these two key Biblical passages and several others passages, as well. '  

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**22   This brings up a very important question about faith.   What do you do when the overwhelming evidence point to the conclusion that what you have accepted on faith to be true and what believed by faith to be true isn't true, that it was a story fabricated by others whose intent was to manipulate and control.  

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