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Theta Healing -- Theta Transformation

Changing One's Inner Programming

Beliefs to look for inside yourself ---

Beliefs that may be limiting your success with Theta Healing”

Topic List

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Patterns / Habits

Perception (The World As I Perceive It to Be)

Personal Traumas

Post-Traumatic Stress

Pre-Traumatic Stress (fear of failure)

Speaking Up

Timing

Transcending Fear and Doubt

Trust

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Topic List H -- M°

Topic List M -- Money°

Topic List N -- Z°

Patterns / Habits
What Are My Behavior Patterns?

Alter Ego: Ernie is a nice guy. He means well. It's just that he screws thing up. When talking/writing about the negative aspects of ones life, using the alter ego provides a dis-attachment from the problem aspects of one's life. This technique came from Bruce Lipton.

Does this pattern still serve me? If not, how do I remove it?

With what do I replace it? Remember, Creator does not fix things, He/She/It Creates _____ and replaces the old and dysfunctional with the new creation.

It's safe . . . I know what it feels like. . . I know how . . . et cetera. Remember the distinction between who I am and what I am experiencing.

For each of us, our habit patterns and the underlying beliefs are the contexts in which our lives manifest.

Take each belief through the releasing process described on the page titled: Format for Clearing Old Beliefs ' and through the installing new beliefs as described on the page titled: Format for Downloading New Beliefs '

Answer this question: What am I going to be when I am no longer living by the old pattern? What, then, will I do? What will I have, express, and experience? At the end of the process, command that Creator re-create your soul-self.

Childhood Pattern --- Being Invisible
This was, for Ernie, a survival behavior. It has past life origin -- a life in which Ernie was stabbed in the back and killed because of his success. Corruption would have been exposed and his associates murdered him to keep him silent.

The childhood pattern came from the past life pattern. The childhood pattern was fear that being who he really was would cause his family to either destroy him, kill him or abandon him. For survival, he avoided allowing his light to shine. He ether functioned at the level of mediocrity or became invisible to those around him.

Now as an adult and as the director of several programs that require public attention, I have redefined who I am and I have recreated myself.

Replacement: I am the primary, public spokesperson for the TLC-Life-Center's program titled: How to Reverse Global Warming. ' I am very successful in my new life. I experience a great deal of joy, satisfaction, recognition, and appreciation in this new life. I am well rewarded financially and otherwise in this new life. I welcome the attention that this new life brings. I do, however, have clear discernment to know what is public and what is private.

Completed resolution for the Pattern - Being Invisible 23 Dec 07

Childhood Pattern --- Nobody Listens to Me
As a child, what Ernie had to offer was mostly ignored. Because he was considerably younger than everyone else, what he had to offer was perceived as not good enough. Ernie translated that to mean he was not good enough and that he was not listened to.

Replacement: Now, when I speak, people listen. What I write, people read with joy and with interest. What I have to communicate is valuable. What I have to communicate on my websites is valuable. Other see that value. I am rewarded for that value, financially and otherwise.

Completed resolution for the Pattern - Nobody Listens 24 Dec 07

Adult Pattern: When Ernie succeed in getting his home fixed the way he want it, he would be forced to move. This manifested in his life three times, the first time at age six. Even though he has not fixed up his present home the way he'd like it to be , the forced-out scenario almost happened again a fourth time a few months ago. The landlords money problems nearly got Ernie evicted. That has been resolved. The present concern is not having sufficient money to pay the rent. Thus, there is the fear that lack of money could force Ernie out, still again.

This is a variation of the "Being Invisible" pattern described above. It, too, has a past life origin -- in a life where he was stabbed in the back and killed because of his success. Ernie's involvement in the corruption of others would have been exposed him and so his associates murdered him to keep him silent. The childhood pattern in this life came from that past life pattern. The childhood pattern was
fear that being who he really am would cause his family to either destroy him, kill him, or abandon him. This fear also comes from another life. In that life Ernie is stronger, taller and smarter that those around him. As a result, others were jealous of his talents and afraid of his abilities. In that life, he was set up by those in charge, placed in harms way, and eventually killed.

The adult variation of this is: Succeeding means being exposed which in turn means being thrown out. This time, if Ernie succeeds at his life's mission, he will be forced out of his body. If he does not succeed, I he'll be thrown out of his home.

Replacement: I am safe and secure regardless of my external circumstances. I have the capacity to keep my body healthy and to heal anything that threatens my physical health, my physical safety, and/or my physical well being. I can continue to live in my present body as long as I choose to.

If and when I move form the home I am presently living in, I do so by conscious and intentional choice. That decision is made by me at my own free will under circumstances that are pleasant, peaceful, and completely harmonious. My free will decisions takes me to a better and more functional and more pleasant home.

Having resolved and replaced the "Being Invisible" pattern, I am now both successful and seen as successful. I am now safe being successful, and I am safe being seen as successful.

I also have the capacity to attract, manifest and use as I see fit more than enough money to completely fulfill all my financial requirement and desires. I now have more than enough money to live my life in the state of financial abundance and in the state of grace and ease.

An old fear: If I fail, Global Warming will kill us all.

Replacement: It's no longer my job to fix the universe. That's Creator/God's job. My job is simply to be as I am and do as I choose to do without any attachment to the results. My job is to shift my consciousness so that I am in a universe where we have successfully reversed Global Warming.

Completed resolution for the Pattern - Forced Out 24 Dec 07

Childhood Pattern: Making problems so I can fix them. One of my self identities for years was as one who was good at fixing things. I have now redefined myself as one who

Replacement: I e.

Breaking the Pattern --- Go away mentally or if necessary, physically. Don't add energy to something that doesn't need me adding to it. Refocus on something else.

Let it go. It's not my problem.

Where's the gift in this? What did I get that I couldn't have gotten elsewhere? Discretion

** It is commanded that:

** . . . I am a

** . . . I know

** . . . I follow

Remove:

** S.

Perception

Perception Perception ... 2

Perception
The Word Is What I Perceive It to Be

We have the potential to be the Jewels in the universe

My world is a world of love, and my love is a loving world.

** It is commanded that:

** . . . I am a

** . . . I know

** . . . I follow

Remove:

** S.

Perception

Personal Traumas ...

Personal Traumas:

Post Traumatic Stress: Each of us has experienced personan traumas. Use the Theta Healing Techniques to remove the post traumatic stresses associated with these experiences . Make a list of all the things that trigger negative feelings within you and then treat each of them. After the initial work, you will probably still find additional triggers. When they come into your awareness, treat them as soon as possible.

An Example of P. T. S. All of us have had childhood experiences that left strong, lingering, stressful memories. Here's an example of how PTS produced a negative response and how awareness reversed and eliminated the negative response.

"I lived in a farmhouse for almost exactly one year when I was six years old. About 9:00 a.m. on the first day of September, which was also my seventh birthday, my family was packing and preparing to move out of the farmhouse and back into town."

"My mother smelled something burning and she went out to investigate. When we heard her hollering, we all ran out to one of the two barns in time to see that sparks from an electrical wire had started a mall fire in the far corner. The structure was made of old, tinder-dry, unpainted wood with broken bales of hay lying around inside. Within minutes, the entire building was huge inferno. The heat cause the second barn, which was closer to the house, to catch on fire. The only thing that kept the house from burning was the heroic effort of an uncle, recently returned from the war in the Pacific."

"I was placed on the grass about thirty yards form the house, next to piles of clothes, pieces of furniture and anything else that could quickly be removed from the house. I was under strict orders not to move from where I sat. My physical position was slightly higher than the ground level of the house and barns. My perspective was form a position as if I were, to use an an analogy, sitting in the bleachers watching a ball game. My older brother was injured in the struggle to save the house and its content. The day was absolute chaos."

"The following summer I developed sever hay fever, with allergies to plants that the prior summer, I had played in and around with no allergies whatsoever. In those days, nobody linked physical illness with emotional stress, so I received physical treatments only."

"About ten years later, I realized that the hay fever had an emotional cause and not a physical one. With that realization, the hay fever disappeared almost a quickly as it had arrived."

Obviously, there is still some clearing for me to do around this memory because, I having an emotional reaction to writing this story, even though the incident occurred almost sixty years ago.

** I have Creator's perspective on traumas and on post-traumatic stress. And mine is the same.

** I have Creator's understanding of traumas an on post-traumatic stress. And mine is the same.

** I know what it feels like to live free of post-traumatic stress.

** Creator, it is commanded that the post traumatic stress associated with ___________ is

resolved on the history level

removed on the other three levels

and returned to Creator's Light

The void created by this removal is replaced and filled with Creator's complete and total love and light
and by _____________ .

** I understand that . . .

** It is commanded that . . .

** I am worthy of being . . . doing . . . having . . .

** I know the next step to __________ .

** I know what ___________ feels like .

** And mine is the same.

Remove:

Make you list of traumatic events. Remove the PTS

** Only sissies sing.

** You're too little. You can't go. I'm not good enaough.

** The family dictatorship.

** No Christmas stocking.

** Head injury (hammer).

** Tonsils out.

** No Christmas stocking.

Personal Traumas

Pre Traumatic Stress ...

Pre-Traumatic Stress

Releasing Fear of Future Disasters

Global Disasters: Also consider that in your great grandfather's days, the scientific community didn't talk about things like a huge meteor striking the Earth, or a polar shift, or Global Climate Change, or nuclear destruction, or Global Terrorism, or a super-volcano erupting, or any of the other, present-day, potentially-disastrous events.

Yellowstone Park was, at one time, simply a beautiful natural scenic wonder. It's still that today, but it's also a huge super-volcano that, when it erupts again, could produce a climate change so disastrous that most of the present animal and plant life on Earth could become extinct.

One needs to live with these catastrophic potentials and still live a reasonably "normal" life. Use Theta Healing to clear you fears around these areas of life.

** I have Creator's perspective on global disasters. And mine is the same.

** I have Creator's understanding of global disasters. And mine is the same.

** I know what it feels like to live free and safe even though, on a geological timeline, the Earth has potential disasters in it's future.

** Creator, it is commanded that my fear of global-level disasters is

resolved on the history level

removed on the other five levels

and returned to Creator's Light

The void created by this removal is replaced and filled with Creator's complete and total love and light
and by complete confidence that I'm healthy and well no matter what happens.

** I know that even if I leave the body as part of a global-level disaster, I'm healthy and well. I'll simply have moved into a different plane of existence.

Be.

** I understand that . . .

** It is commanded that . . .

** I have Creator's perspective on . . .

** I have Creator's understanding of . . .

** I am worthy of being . . . doing . . . having . . .

** I know the next step to __________ .

** I know what ___________ feels like .

** And mine is the same.

Remove:

** S.

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Speaking Up ... 1

Speaking Up

I have Creator’s definition of speaking up. And mine is the same. ¤

I have Creator’s definition of Divine right timing. And mine is the same.

I know when to speak and when to be quiet.

I can and do speak, clearly and distinctly and ask for what I want.

When it feels right I speak up and ask for what I want.

Whenever it is wise to do so, I speak up for myself.

I release all unwarranted fear about speaking up and asking for what I want

I live in a safe and friendly world. I know how and when to express myself clearly and safely.

Remove:

** Speaking up will get me in trouble.

** Speaking up is dangerous.

** It's dumb to take chances.

Speaking Up

Timing ...

Timing --Being in Divine Right Timing

"There is a season for every purpose under heaven."

Window of opportunity

Act in timely manner

Right Timing

I have Creator's perspective on timing. And mine is the same.

I have Creator's perspective on divine right timing regarding eating food.

I have Creator's perspective and divine right timing regarding eating food.

I have Creator's perspective and divine right timing regarding what to eat, how much to eat, and when to eat.

Remove:

** S.

Timing

Transcending Fear and Doubt

** It is commanded that ___________ be resolved on the history level, removed and returned to Creator’s light on the subconscious level, the soul level and the generic level, and replaced with: _________

** The money required to support my life is here now, and continues to flow to me in spite of my residual doubts and fears.

** The money required to support my life flows to me at the rate of at least $3,000 per month in spite of my residual doubts and fears.

** My positive, loving thoughts about life and about money are so strong, so clear and so frequent that the occasion fear thought and the occasional doubt thought are simply overwhelmed an pushed into nothingness.

** I have created a trash conduit from me direct to Creator's Light which automatically captures fear thoughts, doubt thoughts, and any other negative thoughts an pulls them instantly out of my consciousness and sends them to Creator's Light for transformation. I experience this process as something that looks, feels, and acts like a powerful vacuum cleaner.

** Creator, it is commanded that whenever a fear thought, a doubt thought or any other negative thoughts enters my mind, that thought is automatically resolved on the history level, removed and returned to Creator’s light on the subconscious level, the soul level and the genetic level, and replaced with Creator's Infinite Light and with feeling and thoughts of:

Trust in Creator,
Faith in my own ability as a God in physical form,
Safety for myself, and my family, my friends and
my fellow team members,
Protection of the my Earthly possessions and
protection of anything for which I am the steward.

I am also filled with Creator's Infinite light.

** I have Creator’s definition of fear. And mine is the same.

Fear = False Evidence Appearing Real.

** I have Creator’s definition of doubt. And mine is the same.

Doubt = A variation on fear. Lack of trust.

Being neither here nor there.

Not knowing what will occur, fearing something bad.

** I have Creator’s definition of trust. And mine is the same.

** I have Creator’s definition of faith. And mine is the same.

** I have Creator’s definition of safety. And mine is the same.

** I have Creator’s definition of being safe. And mine is the same.

** I have Creator’s definition of the Biblical phrase: "According to your faint so be it onto you." And mine is the same.

** I have Creator’s definition of the Biblical phrase: "If you have the faith of a mustard seed you can move mountains." And mine is the same.

** I live in a safe Universe.

What Programs Did I Take On from Early Childhood

Woops! Dropped the Baby: Within minutes after Robert was born, the doctor dropped him. He landed on the table and appeared to be Ok in spite of the incident.

Usury: Circa age 7 to 10, older brothers offered Robert a kite. They said, “Let us help you fly it.” Once it was in the air, they shot down the kite with their shotguns.

Alternative: Robert, we have I kite that we would like you to fly for us while we shoot it down.

Abandoned and Turned Over to Police: A police car turned onto street where we live and in less than a minute, drove passed our home. Someone, thinking they are cute, saw the police car coming and said, Robert, what did you do? The police are coming for you.

Alternative: Robert, do you see those guys in that specially painted car coming down the street. If you are ever in need special help, that’s their job. You can call them and they’ll come to help. Older brother, run out and get them to stop so we can bring Robert out to meet them. et cetera.

Not Competent -- older brothers are heading for the business area of town. I want to go too, but I’m simply told you can’t go. The message that I created in my mind from that incident was: You’re not good enough. -- Others are better than me. They can do ______ but you can’t.

Alternative: Anything they can do, you can do and more. They are older and have already learned things that you are still learning. That’s why you need to stay here with me, now. When I go there, next time, I’ll take you with me and you can start learning all those things you’ll need to know so that when you are their age, you can do anything they can do and much more besides.

** It is commanded that all connections to an unsafe universe be resolved on the history level, removed and returned to Creator’s Light on the subconscious level, the soul level and the generic level, and replaced with:

I live in a safe universe.

** I am filled with God’s absolute, total, all-encompassing love. God’s love protects me and keeps me safe as I move through (what is for me is) a safe universe even though others experience it as not safe.

I understand that the universe just is.

If I perceive it as safe, then for me, it is safe.

If I perceive it as not safe, then for me, it is not safe.

Why is the Universe a safe place for me and unsafe for others?

According to my faith, so be it into m.

The Universe follows my instructions. Those instructions are given by thoughts, feelings, attitudes, beliefs, et cetera.

** It is commanded that ___________ be resolved on the history level, removed and returned to Creator’s light on the subconscious level, the soul level and the generic level, and replaced with:

______

** It is commanded that

Remove:

** I live in an unsafe universe.

** Try-hard driver.

** Drop the baby.

** Double-bind loser beliefs such as:

I should have known, but there was no way for me to know.

Transcending Fear and Doubt